i am straight so this is directed towards people with a penis but it is so different for everyone so some slight tweaking is needed, but personally i love to give head, that sloppy eye contact and hearing moans knowing you did that is top notch for me, however one of my best friends lana doesn’t and that is ok. we are not unusual for what we prefer ever: ok besties? i joke i learned how to give head my freshman year of college, i’d just lost my virginity and had my first kiss: i know it sounds terrifying for most but i am so glad i lost it that way, i’m crippled by anxiety and the pisces rising and anxiety doesn’t help so i know if it’d been special or not all at once i would’ve tweaked over it. but freshman year of college my mental health was awful: i skipped almost every class and really destroyed my dream of pharmacy (it’s ok it’s for the better i promise) and i really turned my impulsivity and losing it into the worst. i deep spun into using male attention for hookups to “cure” me and my heartbreak and lack of love from my dad. but in this time i learned how to give insane head (or at least i think and i did make a man cum in a few seconds to suck my own dick for a second…) but one of my best friends sasha had asked me for head advice and i realized everyone deserves this sorry for rambling on but it’s my blog deal with it <3 no matter the size wetness matters. no one wants to suck on something dry it’s all frictiony it just doesn’t go right, i personally spit on it and “kiss” on it almost like giving a hickie tracing the veins and such with my tongue and giving sloppy kisses which i think is everett edmund’s favorite part… i do this for a little bit and alternate it with simply looking up with little bambi eyes tongue out and with my hand move le dick on my tongue and i normally make sure the tip of my tongue hits the base of the head as that’s the most sensitive sweet spot once we have this bitch wet enough to actually give head head trace your tongue around the head, yet again eye contact eye contact eye contact you are fucking because you like each other in some aspect, now good head doesn’t require deep throating (i’d love to be able to but i am a vomity bitch, if you can kudos to you and i do not wanna throw up training myself, i tackled anorexia but i really do not need the risk) no matter the size don’t forget your hand ! we have them for a reason, with my acrylics (they are like longish i consider them medium but everyone’s like no kurtis) i like to softly trace on the balls with one and do the same on their thigh doing the thing with my thumb softly rubbing i’ve always loved that done to my hand and such so what’s stopping me! and once you are ready to do the real deal i always ask if you’re with someone new or just don’t feel comfy with your partner ask them to show you how they like the feeling of jacking off have them wrap their hand around yours for the perfect pressure and i find it easier to twist and if i’m not already mouth around the tip i focus there in that mega sensitive spot. with head you’re gonna want to have your mouth purched as if you’re about to say purple the inner suction of the cheeks is important with moving your tongue like licking an ice cream cone around the shaft while sucking. i personally love some rougher sex with the nice softness and intimacy everett edmund gives because there is so much trust with it so he’ll normally hold my hair and control my speed (it’s really perfect for us damn) he understands my constant nausea and the fact his dick is far too big to deep throat and if your partner doesn’t/tries to force you to you need to leave. headass. no matter how you are/like it/circumstances you both need to be comfy and if you don’t want something of any size like that down your throat you have the right to bestie. even in bdsm instances if your submissive there is still that fact that you can say no and trust each other.